TRAUMA RELEASE,
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Physical Body Improvements with
Emotional Release Bodywork +,
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Lou Gross BSEE
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Master Postural Integrator since 1983
& Structural Integration Bodyworker
Postural Integration PhD Psychotherapists & PhD Founder trained
Netherton-Reichian Therapist - Morris Netherton PhD trained - since 1985 Strong
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Trauma Release & Clearing As events are dissolved out of you
physically & energetically,
it simultaneously
Removes Negative Patterns, stuck emotions
& blocks - & corrects life long restrictions & issues
WHAT THIS METHOD IS &
HOW IT IS DIFFERENT FROM
THE MORE COMMONLY KNOWN METHODS
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Different from most commonly known systems
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Thorough, Fast, Non-Traumatic
- Noticeable, Permanent Results Even in the
1st Hr
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You don't traumatically re-live the incident
repeatedly.
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Instead, you consciously & objectively remove
the energy residues of the incident from your
Body. THEN, you feel cleaner, more alert & relaxed,
& that behavior and its thoughts are diminished
or gone.
-You are conscious all the time, are getting
coached from me
on moving thru the episode, line by line, with your
conscious
mind and awareness doing the verbalizing of the
energies
that you are guided to feel in your body or pictures
you see
in your mind's eye. These have energy.
- I also help you find & phrase the expressing sentences. It is
this first person, present tense expressing, while you
are
objectively aware of the picture or the feelings, that
removes this energy that your sensing abilities or
mental
picture is perceiving.
- Often, people first give an observer
statement of the energy
they are in touch with. So I also help you change what you
can express
in your observer mind "about" what happened,
into a first-person, present-tense expression.
The
observer statement is what your brain says about
the
energy. The first person direct response
from the
energy itself, is the actual energy expressing
itself.
- You are never in a trance & never in an
hysteric emotional
re-enactment. You can even pause to eat,
have water,
or
go to the bathroom
- We can straightforwardly remove the
energies of episodes
you do not remember almost as easily as those you
do
remember. And by removing THESE episodes of
stored
energy, your trauma & patterns are dissolved right out of
your body & its energy field.
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This energy never was YOU in the first place.
Your aware-
ness mind just thought it was you. It's
just an
object, and a group of objects, that your body &
energy
system picked up in the recent or distant past.
And THIS
method enables you to find & remove those objects
in a
rather non-traumatic manner.
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I've been doing this successfully since 1985.
NOW, MORE ABOUT WHAT WE DO
This is a Body Releasing, & Transformational
Method, to Change the State of the Body. As we do it, we are removing
old, negative emotional & physical energy out of our physical &
energetic parts. In many cases, this energy is contracting &
it is tumultuous or chaotic.
This is not a psychological therapy as in
talking and discovering and figuring out ways to relate. In
also is not a psychotherapy method of reliving or
discussing the past events. It is a Bodywork method, to improve the
concrete physical and energetic
condition of the person. And in the process, the old tensions & absorbed
energies are removed. This restores the state of improved health
which is our
more of "our own"
state without all that pollution in it.
We are removing foreign material &
distortions of the physical shape, like tightness & shortness.
And we are also clearing out
the body's energy system.
We are removing these
from our "optimum" Body & energy system. The truth of this matter,
discovered by many professionals during 70 years of its practice, is that the condition of
the Body significantly affects what we call "the mind."
If you have already developed what I call An Awareness Mind, you might
have noticed that the "you" that can observe the negative
feelings & thoughts that come up, and observe the physical tightnesses
in your body, is not the "you" that is them. When you
recognize this understanding, you have already "objectified" these
physical & emotional-mental "things," as being separate from "you."
YOU can then use these professionally developed techniques to remove
those "things" & also remove the physical tightnesses that came
along with them
& those that got added over time.
The Trauma we are removing is stuck STUFF in your body. From other
people & past events.
We can remove this stuck energy & tightness. That clears it out
of you - it releases it from you. Its energy is then neutral &
part of the universe's natural energy. In you, it was a stuck form,
ever since the event happened. And with the contracting physical and
emotional
parts relieved, your own condition is automatically less tense
& stressed.
It has been found that old energies
from stressful, traumatic and grief events get stuck in the body, even
when people can function while they were happening. It happens to us all. It
has also been discovered that these energies are what cause us to continue
to have the tensions & negative restrictions we have had since then,
even the physical tightnesses.
Even in pre-natal and birth, energy
gets stuck in you, the
trauma of & with your parents & others.
For lifelong patterns, it has been discovered that what happens in the
prenatal and birth experiences contribute a lot to the entire life
pattern. But while some methods think it is always just birth, this
system uncovers and clears very important other time frame episodes as
well.
It's a matter of physical pressure from Mother pushing onto the Baby
inside, and her emotions, plus other people's emotions, combine with the
pressing to form a physical - emotional - psychological
"template." This template has both the tightness the
person feels & the emotional and psychological pattern he or she
recognizes. And it is something that repeats throughout life even when the
person's awareness mind notices it & would not like it to happen.
It is not the person. It is foreign material from what happened to
the person, in the past. And this method removes it just as you
would remove splinters or bacterial infections.
And in these old episodes, it is other people's words and feelings, while
YOU were having physical pressure put on you.
Various psychological & body therapies can pull out some of these old
energies.
But this combination of methods I have found, works incredibly
well because it accesses more of the whole person as well as more of the
old energies, removes them easier & more thoroughly, removes old
embedded belief and command statements from other people,
and actually transforms the person into a physically, emotionally &
energetically higher and deeper state of being. So we aren't
just releasing, we are
improving.
Simply stated, the person looks,
feels & functions without all that tightness & polluting energy
& patterns inside him (or her). It even helps meditators &
church goers get more out of their spiritual practice. Chi flows
better.
This method does not rely on what you remember,
although remembering some
of the times you had trauma, like in a rape or car accident or beating, or
loss of a loved one, is helpful to review & to identify what we want
to clear out of you.
The REAL clearing occurs
when we access the actual energies in the body directly, such as through
feeling tensions or seeing pictures in the mind's eye. And that gives us
exceptional details of ALL the episodes and a direct way to remove
whatever the body picked up, whether the person was aware of them, or even
conscious, at the time.
I have removed patterns and body reactions
from people who were knocked unconscious or were under anesthesia in
an operation that suddenly had trauma in it.
Some of the reasons this works so well is, we access the body, physically,
very thoroughly; we use the energy pumping up method of the breathing; we
do movements during the expression that further loosen and release deep
energies as well as some tightness; and we get them out of places throughout the body & even from
its energy field.
We also remove other people's
energies, expressed as words or sentences, that they might have
actually said or just that their emotions and movements were non
verbally expressing. This includes mother and
father in prenatal, and the people around you during the trauma and the
abuse. In the technique
we combine what you now can recognize, of what you were sensing or preoccupied with
at the time, such
as fear or tightness or pressure, or even confusion & trying to keep
your balance, with the other people's actions and information that
occurred at the same time. With this kind of expressing
evergything happening in each moment, the entire
set of physical-emotional layers in the body and its energy fields gets removed.
The
result is a physically improved state of being as well as the old
psychological - emotional energies and patterns are totally gone.
Some people have asked for
detailed info
This is a repeat and embellishment of the items above. with related, on-site descriptive article links
I'll call it a review & embellishment
of the key features of this method.
Also read the Detailed Article
Below.
starts in green box Testimonial
Links are included.
You are Totally Conscious & Can Pause & Talk with me at any time.
Before, after & as we are doing the releasing,
I also explain each part,
what we are doing
& why, & people get more & more familiar with the method at
the same time they feel more relaxed & Deeper-Clearer inside
themselves.
No hypnosis nor trance - You are alert
- your own conscious mind works
with my instructions & guidance to access the old energies & do a
verbal technique with some gentle movements & breathing that easily
clears out even very deep and old material.
No Hyperventilating
- I use Reichian Therapy Techniques I was trained in
and that I have added to, but this method, with the Netherton &
Structural Stretches or Structural Bodywork does not require hyperventilation
to get excellent results.
Not a verbal psychotherapy technique
- the verbalization used in the
Netherton Processing is a first person, present tense expression, from
your own adult mind, of the stored energies that have been in your
body. Even when people in the past never said the actual wordings,
if you have the energies in you and can see pictures or feel feelings,
then you can translate the energies into the sentences in English, even if
they might have been said in another language in childhood, or just
implied in actions. The conscious mind communication with me is how
to do the process, the guidance in the processing, & discussion of
what you then recognize and feel as you are literally, physically, cleaner
and clearer.
You do not have to remember all the episodes or even what happened in the
episodes you remember. The huge majority of information that makes
up the un-conscious pattern, we are not aware of. You do not even
have to remember what someone said in an episode you do remember; it is
equally and often more significant to remove the implied information or
implied statements by the person's body energy and actions. This
method routinely accesses and coaches you through an un-traumatic body and
normal voice speaking process that removes these old statements &
energies.
You also do not have to find words to all you own old fears and
feelings. Usually, the implied energies of words or sentences of the
other people are combined with your own old, non-verbal energy
experiences, second after second. This method removes each second's
total energy movie "frame" by accessing the whole frame in an
easy to comprehend and do way, once you see what we are doing and get the
hang of it.
Hands-on with me is always very effective; however hands-on from someone
else before our session works well, too. My stretching methods have
equally helped people on the phone as well.
The technique does not require special equipment or areas to work
in. I have done this processing very effectively in restaurants, at
the beach & sitting on a couch with friends, as well as during a lie
down on the bodywork table or couch processing session. One client
even did it on her cell phone, stretched out in the back of her SUV by the
river near her house (crowded with family), while I was coaching her
through it from over 1000 miles away. But you do need a quiet
area. I also did it for a person in a foreign country via skype
internet phone and text. In a crowded apartment, she could hear me, then say
the sentences of her inner energies to release silently to herself and
also typed them to me on skype.
Skype-out works from my computer to your own house or office
phone. Even to cell phones. In many countries, to land line
phone connections are just a couple US Dollars per hour.
Links to more on-site articles:
Stress Removal Clearing & Emotional
Release.
Improves Physical
Tightness & Pains, too.
Including Back & Neck Pain.
Clearing Specific Traumatic Events
SINCE WE ARE REMOVING TRAUMA SO THAT WE FEEL THE OLD "STUFF" WHEN IT IS
COMING OUT, IT IS VERY HELPFUL TO CREATE A PHYSICAL & ENERGY STATE THAT IS
ABLE TO BE CALM & STRONG, ABLE TO SEE DEEPLY INTO OURSELVES, & STAY
FOCUSED ON THE RELEASING WITH THE COACHING GUIDANCE.
My
Unique Energy
Calming & Centering Technique & the Fascia Body Lengthening
Stretches & Emotional Energy Loosening Movements.
A key to the fast, comfortable &
thorough release of very strong emotional energies that have been held in
for some time.
This is unique to
MY Netherton-Reichian Method and it is both very effective in pulling out
more old energies easier, and thoroughly, and it also helps people stay
stronger than the emotional energy coming out, which, especially in grief,
can be a lot.
So we stretch you easily and have you deep breathe some, then we have you
do some of the release processing of the Netherton technique. There
is no hyperventilating nor getting lost in trauma. We just have you
squeeze energy out of tissues and bring it up to consciousness in the
forebrain to remove it with this sensing & simple verbal expressive
process.
As the
energy being released gets very strong, we then have you breathe through your inner
energy center line of points and that re-centers you and decreases the
amount of emotional energy coming out at any one time. These are
measurable energy centers that are part of us just as our organs and arms
and legs are, and they are centered along the front of the spine inside
the body, with their energies flowing circularly in each body area from
pelvis to top of the head. By breathing into them in a slow, focused
manner, one after the other, the emotional trauma charge filling up our
muscles an overwhelming our fbrains and tissues, is then relaxed, and we
feel only the calm, centered and relaxed energies we have just created in
a few minutes.
Then we can either do more releasing or stop for the time being and clean
the rest of it out at a later time.
Once you see how to do this, you can do some of it yourself; both the
Netherton releasing word saying and the breathing along the center line of
your energies and even your inner muscles of the spine and nervous system.
We also have you breathe through
the body's acupuncture energy system and make planes of smoothing and
aligning energy from the left to the right, right to the left, front to
back and back to front. This also calms YOU and strengthens you, and
it is then easier to do the next amount of energies to release.
Further, we do more easy, loosening stretches throughout the session, and we have you move
your legs and pelvis in ways to release the energies of the structure that
are up in the chest and also in the abdomen and legs and pelvis.
This allows for a clearer release of the deeper energies inside that got
pushed down and stuck there. And it makes it easier to do and even
less traumatic.
We are simply loosening the body, bringing the old
foreign energies up to consciousness, and then using our conscious
awareness minds to translate the energies into first-person present-tense
sentences to express them as they were said or implied in the past
specific episode we are clearing.
All the
episodes stuck in the body are from specific episodes. While
our forebrains can remember & describe a whole series of events in an
observational sense, the body embedded energies & tightnesses are in
the first person, just like a recording on your CD or DVD, made a long
time ago. And this method erases them so your CD-DVD is now fresh
and clean and blank again.
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Ways that the Bodywork & Structural
Stretching
itself & then adding the other release techniques make it work.
Some people who are very capable,
hold a lot of grief in, because they have had to keep on top of the
situation, and/or because they were told to be strong and hold it in, and even
because it was too much to handle at the time. For this kind of
large amount of energies, it helps a lot to
have the hands-on Structural Integration Bodywork first, and/or as the
releasing is happening.
All by itself, the Bodywork reduces the amount of the
energies, cleaning them out of the muscles and organs of the body, and it opens the areas to the
head, & in the head, so that energy can flow to there and into consciousness.
It also
removes a lot of the tightness that was formed in the old event, which is
always a part of the blockage to
a smooth release that is not overwhelming.
In fact, along with sorrow, there is usually anger that the person died or
that things were happening the way they did. And this angry energy
and its tightness is located lower in the structure, and also, it holds the
sorrow into the chest. That tightness involves the legs as
well as the lower pelvis and even the neck and head.
When the muscles that were tightened to hold the feelings inside are
loosened, then the emotional statements to hold it in, as well as the
sorrow feelings themselves, come out a lot more. It is here we also
alternate the energy breathing and strong centering.
And note that it is the fascia of the muscle bodies, the putty holding all
the muscle fibers together, that embodies the ongoing tightness. It
is not a matter of recent or current muscle fiber and nerve signal
activity. It is purely old shortness in putty that was created
during the events themselves, by the intense muscle tightening or the
pressure from mother or outsiders pushing onto the person's body..
And because the stretching and Netherton type of release
processing literally clears out parts of the body right away, from the
outside-in usually, then the re-centering and calming and aligning, with
the special energy breathing, has more volume of our bodies to work
with. So as the releasing volume progresses, the other method for
US, makes us more deeply & more fully relaxed, clearer & more
energized.
And in phone sessions, instead of the in-person hands-on, on the phone, we can do
the Structural Stretching in many areas of the body, and coach you to do hands-on for the
head & chest, etc, first. Then it is easier to remove the large amount of grief
in a more comfortable way. Or, to remove the trauma in a way that
the fears come out step by step at the same time as the anger and
overwhelm. is cleared as well.
For abusive trauma, there is also a lot of fear that
comes out of storage in the body, and it helps to do these
techniques for that to come out easier and a lot less traumatically as
well.
We make the good part of you Bigger & Bigger as more & more of the of
tightnesses and energy are corrected, & in the process, you become a
Better & Better processing mechanism.
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combined methods
Unique Bodywork, Reichian Therapy, Netherton Therapy
Even more specific details of the
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of our blocks & patterns
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WHAT IS THIS TECHNIQUE &
WHAT IT CAN DO IMMEDIATELY FOR YOU? The Bottom
Line of the Method I am an expert in
removing the effects of Abuse - & without much trauma - also
removing loss and grief easily
Trauma
Release, Clearing & Removing Bodymind Therapy is a set of very well established, school trained
methods, connected together in a way that quickly and comfortably
accomplishes the removal of
upsetting emotional energy that is causing their phobias or sorrows & is
often a cause of ongoing physical ailments.
It clears what people think are mental
patterns or emotional patterns. They are really structural
patterns embedded with the energy of the old negative emotional and
physical trauma events.
I've been school trained and
have been helping people with this system, including by phone, for
over 20 years.
This kind of emotional and physical
trauma energy "routinely" gets stuck in our bodies during
stress, pain &
illness. It also happens "regularly" during traumatic
events such as childhood or adult abuse, loss of a loved one, auto and
other serious accidents, natural disasters, financial debacles, upsetting
divorces, muggings, rapes, shootings and times of war.
Trauma Release,
Clearing & Removal Bodymind therapy
does both emotional release and physical release.
People feel a lot looser, straighter & taller as well as emotionally
relieved.
Even by phone, a lot of relief
happens in just the first hour and people feel much more relieved in
just one 2-3 hour session.
Further sessions, if
desired, continue to remove additional, deeper seated energies, and
people feel cumulatively more deeply relaxed, flexible and
psychologically freer, even in circumstances of life they've always
felt blocked.
I have helped
people release all their old tensions & emotional trauma from rape,
long term abuse, loss of loved ones, acts of war, auto accidents,
beatings, interpersonal relationship upsets, even from birth &
pre-natal trauma.
My easy to do method removes actual
physical tightness of the muscles that is caused by this "foreign"
energy, and it simultaneously dissolves away the emotional "charge," of a single stressful
event and from a series of stressful events.
This method greatly extends the
releasing from Structural Integration & other Bodywork & release
sessions you may have had. It helps so much because it quickly
removes large amounts of old restrictive energy & expressive
blockage that neither Bodywork nor other methods I have encountered
over 20 years can remove.
It even has the capability to clear
events from many years ago that we don't consciously remember but
stored significant stress in the body anyway. This trauma,
tightness and body energy release system quickly & cumulatively
removes those restrictions and "pollutions" to our otherwise healthy
body and mind.
It simultaneously
makes the mind clearer, calmer & more aware. People
are educated about the process, too, can do some more on their own,
and they see the details, & causes, of their long term patterns more
clearly, at the same time that the charge & control has been
removed.
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by Lou Gross, School Certified Master Postural Integrator
Expert in Bodymind Release
Therapies; Netherton, Reichian, Bioenergetic, Structural & Energetic.
Since 1982.
I am an expert in removing the effects of Abuse - & without much
trauma
22 years successful experience
with this particular system
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This method of Emotional Trauma Release, Clearing, Removal Bodymind
therapy, can also remove the stress and
the depressing or frustrated emotions that have been created in
situations relating to chronic pain and injuries. That can even be
done simultaneously with the improvement in the purely physical condition.
There's
often an emotional shock that gets stored in the body tissues at the time
of an injury. And for many people, there's an accumulation of stored
emotion relating to
the limitations we have when there's chronic pain and debility.
Emotional charge also builds up through a series
of events of not being able to get the chronic pain fixed, and even having
to tough it out while "living with it."
So this system can remove the "instantly embedded" upsets that
get put into
the body during athletic injuries. The physical injury may
heal, but in many cases, the emotional charge created exactly at
that time still stays in the body. This can even create a
phobia.
This is not psychotherapy, although it has
certainly helped people in their psychotherapy.
This
is a removal of energy and physical tension that gets stuck in the actual tissues of our bodies;
and it is even more significant than the mental memories we usually
consider with regard to trauma.
It is this stuck "form" and the stuck energies that perpetuate our emotional
upsets for days, weeks and even years after the original incidents are
gone. Our "remembering" comes and goes, depending on what we're
mentally paying attention to. The material in our bodies is
always there, like a bunch of splinters.
When the embedded energies are removed
with a "focused" physical relengthening and conscious emotional release, most, and often all, the
negative phobias, upsets and fears that had been operating all that time
literally go away.
In this
method, emotional release is done with a clear headed, aware conscious
mind. Upsetting emotions may come to consciousness as they leave the
body, but the actual removal process is rather non-traumatic. We are
clearing the "space" in our own body-mind. And people find their
mind becomes increasingly clearer, calmer and more centered at the same
time they are removing the old energies.
Most of us
accumulate trauma and stress even as small children, if only from
upsetting falls and injuries. And psychotherapists now know that we
absorb the emotional stresses of our mother during birth and the prenatal,
while we, ourselves, are getting pressed upon by her belly and birth
canal muscles, and come under the influence of her chemical changes.
Once any of
these energies get stuck in our tissues, no matter how long ago, they operate from the
subconscious part of the mind and "keep alive" the same discomforts and
negative feelings and thoughts we (or mother) had during the actual past experiences.
Then, for many of us, as time goes on, that energy "transfers" itself onto other people
and events in our lives and causes problems for us, and in our
relationships. These embedded energies include the thoughts,
feelings, speech and actions of ourselves and all the people around us in
those specific stressful or traumatic events. It is as if we were a sponge at the
time, and sopped up all the energy from the surrounding area. It's
also as if we were a set of video cameras and a recorder, and made a
precise recording of everything that happened at the time.
The
"residues," or "legacies," of these events are not just mental memories.
They are real emotions and physical sensations, just like our everyday
healthy emotions and actions. But because they were generated at an
extremely stressful time, and still remain inside of us, it's as if we're
having those exact stressful experiences all over again, sometimes when we get
"triggered," and sometimes all the time. So they keep us stressed in
exactly the same ways that we were in the actual events.
Most
people think that the continuing upsets people have after traumatic events
are because their mental faculties keep "remembering them." Thousands of
treatments have proven this is not true.
Even people who are upset a lot
of the time, have periods when they're thinking about something else.
"They" might even "know better," that "they" shouldn't be so stressed.
So what "else" keeps making the
old behavior repeat?
The continuing upset is due to
the actual "implant" of the energies of the event itself.Remove the emotional charge
and physical tension of the implant and the person no longer has the
ongoing upset. In fact, many people can then face the issue in their own
minds without getting upset about it. And they even see the details of
what happened more clearly. This happens for even
the most physically traumatic and emotionally repressive experiences.
And it works for events we don't completely remember and for events that
happened in the pre-verbal, pre-natal and birth periods of our lives, too.
We are removing the "bodily" recordings of the events, regardless of
what pictures or thoughts "about" them are in our "minds."
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN RELEASING OLD
IMPRINTS OUT OF THE BODY - VERSUS - DOING "BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION" PSYCHOTHERAPY
These Trauma and Emotional Release,
Clearing & Removal BodymindTherapies include hands-on Structural Integration Bodywork, which in my
own case, usually feels quite good as it is releasing old tension, stress,
and emotional energy.
They also include processes that we do, usually with a therapist, bodyworker
or "coach" that give us access to the material stuck in the body
area of the subconscious
mind. They enable us to literally remove that energy in a methodical,
conscious way. The energy, and thus the negative residues, dissolve away
immediately, as we follow the process in the sessions. When the
energy patterns are gone, the behaviors they, not us, created in our lives
are also gone.
You see,
the actual events were in years past. They don't exist now. Maybe even
the other people in those events are totally out of our lives. But the
energy residues, or video tapes, inside our own bodies have still
remained. It is the emotional charge and physical component of these
video tapes that Trauma Release Therapy erases. It removes the emotional
charge, and at the same time, significantly increases our insight and
knowledge into what happened. But we're no longer thrown by it.
A
person can still remember the incidents, often in greater detail, and may
even have opinions about what happened. But the large emotional upsets,
the fears and the strains associated with the experiences, are gone.
In fact, the mind actually becomes clearer, deeper, and the person is
often calmer and more centered than even before the incidents.
Because
these are actual physical energy packets located in the flesh, regular
verbal psychotherapy and even hypnosis and neuro-linguistic programming
(NLP) cannot access them. These methods can help us modify our mental
thought patterns about the incidents, and may even help us release some of
the emotional charge. But they cannot get most of it.
I
frequently hear clients say, "I worked on this issue a lot," but when we
do the processing, many hours of very serious emotional material, from
episodes they remembered, and from similar others they didn't remember, come out of
them. From this release, they immediately feel physically
lighter, emotionally relieved and mentally clearer.
You see, it turns out that any
specific very traumatic episode almost always is part of a "stack" that
includes the energies of other episodes of the same type, usually from
much earlier times. What we are doing is removing the negative,
and perhaps self-defeating, pattern of behavior that we recognize is
coming from the specific event. But it's also coming from the other
events as well, because they embedded more of the same kinds of energy
and tightness inside us. So we want to get that out, too.
We are simply, but very effectively, clearing the body of accumulated
tightness and stored stress. A lot of that tightness and stress
were created during what we usually consider psychological or "mental"
interactions. But in the Bodywork and Bodymind therapy fields, we
find these are experiences of the body as well. When
some people
first come for a session, I see that while they're analytically
knowledgeable about their histories, they're also still very much bound up
in the fear, anger, resentment, sorrow and confusion of the emotional
energies still inside them. As the series of sessions proceeds, their
behavior changes very significantly.They become increasingly more open,
less fearful and defensive, less strained, less sorrowful, less angry and
less distractive and avoiding. And whatever the person also does in
verbal psychotherapy, counseling and kinesiological reprogramming works
more fully and successfully in their lives. With Trauma Release
Therapy, which works on the original old episodes, we've removed the
negative competition to these new positive, "mental" ideas.
Still
embedded trauma is one of the major reasons people continue to suffer or
"fall off a recovery program" even when they're getting good counseling
and psychotherapy. It is not the fault of the therapy or therapist.
It is simply that "the episodes" are still happening for the person at the
same time the therapy is trying to help him or her recover. The error is
in the incomplete view of the situation. The conventional thought is that
the episode or earlier period of life is over, and recovery can be worked
on. The more effective approach should be to release the residues of
the events out of
the person's body, in conjunction with the counseling.
I believe it is absolutely essential to have good counseling and ongoing
support when recovering from any trauma. We need to receive good,
"nourishing" energies on many levels to heal, and to replenish ourselves
from the "deficits." But if no release of the trauma
occurs, it's almost as if the counseling and support are being given
during the actual traumatization. In fact, the person's negative,
upsetting behavior is fighting against moving in a positive direction. The support system is
going in one direction, and the still embedded negative energies are going
in the opposite direction, fighting it. In fact, many people cannot
even accept nor apply the positive counseling suggestions because their
bodies are too hard and tight on the outside and too contracted and
withdrawn on the inside.
Plus, they are controlled
by the negative "commands" that got put into them subconsciously during
the events. The traumatic energies actually contain the negative
attitudes that are forced upon us during the trauma. So there is a
self-defeating belief system in our way, too. And again, it is a
body energy implant, not a mentally created decision.
Verbal
therapy can help us understand our difficult situation and past
experiences, and even give us tools to cope with them.. But when
energy from the past still remains inside of us, it can repeatedly
sabotage the wellness program.
When people are open to the
counseling, then the good things we learn and receive
build up positive energy and new, positive mental patterns. But these are
located in different physical parts of the body and in different neurons
in the brain from the past traumatic and negative material. So while they
are an attempt to substitute for the old tendencies and behaviors, they
cannot erase them. In addition, the old
events were created in times of serious stress, with a lot
of emotional and physical energy powering them. That large
quantity of energy is still with us. The new mentally introduced
attitudes are much "smaller" in this regard. What's left, energy
wise, either controls us, or makes us have internal strain even if we get
our "positive" way.
As
psychotherapy treatment continues, the new parts of us can become larger,
if there's a physical place for that energy to accumulate in. And
we can behave in that manner more often and with more conviction, if we
can increase the good parts. This can be done with a body clearing
approach.
Yet the
old material deeper inside us is always significant because it gets triggered by our
current life fears, and then it amplifies those fears way out of proportion.
It actually "re-fills" our muscles with the same tensions we had during
the old stressful events. This mechanism gives the conscious mind
the "big" bad energy feeling all over again. That often create fears that aren't warranted in the current situation.
And it re-creates the angers of the old event, too. There
is also a "speed" issue, a reaction issue. The new behaviors created
in psychotherapy were created in our analytical minds. But the sabotaging behaviors
were created physically and emotionally. Those reactions occur many times
faster, and have a lot more energy in them than the mentally created thoughts
and behaviors. So when they're triggered, they predominate.
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